Little discoveries: ‘the cake of love’

Small things start us in new ways of thinking.
– V.S. Naipaul, British writer, 2001 Nobel Prize in Literature, from A Bend in the River

Textures, textures: Faux fur top and printed knit skirt.

Textures, textures: Faux fur top and printed knit skirt.

I didn’t get a chance to write or post yesterday, Friday being my usual posting day. I’d pulled another all-nighter (well, I slept for one hour when I couldn’t make sense of what I was writing or reading on the computer screen) and was trying to recover from another difficult week at work. I think that makes three straight weeks of damage control and mopping up messes. After closing time, after a meeting and practices for the kids’ extracurricular and sports activities, I could do little else but sit on the sofa in front of the fire and fall asleep, with the opening ceremonies of the Winter Olympics on the television set, an open book on my lap and my laptop bearing the beginnings of a blog post I had started on the sofa next to me. David roused me awake close to midnight and we called it a day, a week, a long week, at that.

Earthy accessories: Laura Lombardi necklace (Eskell, Chicago), End of Century cicada ring (NYC), Alkemie scarab cuff, and Anthropologie feather earrings.

Earthy accessories: Laura Lombardi necklace (Eskell, Chicago), End of Century cicada ring (NYC), Alkemie scarab cuff, and Anthropologie feather earrings.

So this morning, on a cozy Saturday with much-needed, hallelujah rain sheeting down outside, I went back to the abandoned blog post in my office while Isabella sat in the library to work on her homework. Rex was restless on his bed because he couldn’t understand why a little rain should prevent him from getting his morning walk. True to a dog’s nature, he hates deviations from his routine. Ah, rain – his saboteur! He can’t get on with his day until he’s had his walk – the most cherished daily activity of his dog life.

Close-up of textures and accessories: strips of creamy faux fur and muted gold, cream and navy nubby knit.

Close-up of textures and accessories: strips of creamy faux fur and muted gold, cream and navy nubby knit.

Close-up: winter booties finish off this neutral palette.

Close-up: winter booties finish off this neutral palette.

So Isabella procrastinated and took pictures of him staring out the sliding glass door of our bedroom and lying forlornly on his bed – constantly interrupting my writing with her running, colorful commentary about his facial expressions.

Portrait of a dog waiting for his morning walk (photo by Isabella).

Portrait of a dog waiting for his morning walk (photo by Isabella).

As she was showing me pictures on the camera, she clicked back a few photos and came upon a magnetic poetry poem she had composed last summer. I had never seen it, but it struck me in a most beautiful way:

Isabella's magnetic poetry poem from summer 2013.

Isabella’s magnetic poetry poem from summer 2013.

It made my day and my blog post. Hail the little discoveries and the chain of events leading up to small but wondrous things: Rain. Sad dog. Photography. Discovery. Joy.

Thanks, Isabella! Love, Mom,  a.k.a. your 'good book'

Thanks, Isabella!
Love, Mom,
a.k.a. your ‘good book’

Celebrating Portola

Wherever you turn, you can find someone who needs you. Even if it is a little thing, do something for which there is no pay but the privilege of doing it. Remember, you don’t live in a world all of your own.
– Albert Schweitzer, Alsatian theologian, philosopher, physician, musician, and recipient of the 1952 Nobel Peace Prize

Celebrating Portola in a beautifully detailed Eva Franco print coat (Personal Pizazz, Berkeley, CA). A shout out to owner Laura Leventer, who pulled out this beauty for me.

Celebrating Portola in a beautifully detailed Eva Franco print coat (Personal Pizazz, Berkeley, CA). A shout out to owner Laura Leventer, who pulled out this beauty for me.

This past Saturday was Jacob’s middle school’s biggest fundraiser of the year, the annual Celebrate Portola dinner and auction, featuring the Portola Jazz Band. I was out-of-town on business last year, so I was happy to be able to participate this time around. Our middle school is not the typical three years; it only has seventh and eighth grades. To boot, the kids are in portables for the second year in a row. The school buildings, which were found to be on an active slide, were razed last year. It took far longer than it should have taken because of political issues to find a new site, which contributed to the school’s languishing reputation.

Things, however, have been changing for the good. The new school site, which is under construction at a closed elementary school, won’t be open for another two years, but it’s a state-of-the-art facility. More families are deciding to stay as opposed to sending their middle-school age kids elsewhere. We have an engaged principal and despite some rockiness last year, Jacob is having a great eighth grade year, much of it due to having some outstanding teachers.

To wear the coat as a dress, slip on a lace-edged camisole the soft lavender color of the lining and printed trees and a lightweight knit black skirt beneath.

To wear the coat as a dress, slip on a lace-edged camisole the soft lavender color of the lining and printed trees and a lightweight knit black skirt beneath.

I’m a big believer in public education, in fixing what needs to be fixed and doing as much as we can do in our role as parents. So this small renaissance has been welcomed. Last year we contributed a weekly summer bouquet of flowers that lasted about 10 to 12 weeks. This year we made the same contribution. A request went around for parents to sign up for a monthly dessert, and I signed up to make and deliver a sherry wine cake (a favorite recipe from my college friend, Susie) as the first offering to the winning bidder in March. We also contributed, during the live portion of the auction, to the school’s purchase of a laminator and the band director’s purchase of a timpani drum.

Statement BCBG Max Azria ring and necklace and Personal Pizazz earrings.

Nothing but sparkly: Statement BCBG Max Azria ring and necklace and Personal Pizazz earrings.

The dinner was the best I’ve ever had in terms of being mass-produced – it certainly surpassed many a wedding meal – but also stood on its own merit. The salad and especially the green beans were crisp and the pasta al dente. But the lemon pepper chicken was tender and pulled easily off the bone. The masterminds behind the dinner were two dads, one a chef for Williams Sonoma and the other owner of the Arlington Café and Catering (269 The Arlington Avenue, Kensington, CA 94707, 510.525.3900). The music, offered up by the Portola Jazz Band for two sets, was top notch.

A neck adornment alternative: Carmela Rose labradorite necklace (Jenny K, El Cerrito, CA).

A neck adornment alternative: Carmela Rose labradorite necklace (Jenny K, El Cerrito, CA). Note the shimmery lavender bird detail on the sleeve.

We came away with four tickets to a Sacramento River Cats baseball game. The River Cats are the Triple-A team for the Oakland A’s. We also won two passes to the Asian Art Museum (200 Larkin Street, San Francisco, CA 94102, 415.581.3500) and a case of wine, our standard auction item that we bid on. I enjoy auctions, but mostly I enjoy being part of a community to raise funds for our kids’ schools. It was a great evening and quite a successful fundraiser. Hats off to all the parents who worked so hard to put this event on. And to everyone who came out. If we all supported our kids and our local schools, imagine how much stronger our community could be.

It's all in the details.

It’s all in the details.

A magical coat for a magical evening.

A magical coat for a magical evening.